I want to share with you a personal revelation - I’m realizing that I was exhausted and feeling used because people only reached out when they needed something. Can you relate? I'm sure many of you have experienced the weight of being the go-to person, the problem solver, and the helper.
But today, I want to talk about three things on how I harnessed the power of Human Design to set boundaries and reclaim my sense of self.
Understanding My Type
The first thing I did is that I understood my type. As a projector, I've always seen things deeply, especially when it comes to others. However, I often found myself neglecting my own needs and values to please those around me. I recognized that I tend to ignore my own needs and values to please others, causing constant anxiety.
Embracing My Strategy
Secondly, as a projector, my strategy is to wait for recognition of my expertise and an invitation. Not just any call for help, but a genuine recognition of my knowledge. This insight allowed me to distinguish between genuine invitations for guidance and situations where people were simply seeking my labor or money. It was a revelation that empowered me to establish healthy boundaries.
Connecting To My Authority
Lastly, I understand and connect with my authority, the key to making decisions based on my body's intuition rather than being trapped in my overthinking mind. As a splenic authority, I learned to trust my inner knowing in the present moment.
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I'm a 5/2 splenic projector, a mom, a speaker and an Intuitive Business Strategist and Human Design Expert for women online service providers!
After climbing the corporate ladder, I realized that I was not willing to work 40+ hours a week for the rest of my life to prove myself to other unhappy people. Oh and while earning less as a woman of color. So, in December of 2019, I started my coaching business and took in to six figures in one year!
But I was doing the copy and past strategies and treating myself as an employee working 50+ hours a week. I was quickly approaching burnout. So, I learned human design, learned I am a projector and created a six figure business working 12 hours a week!
As a certified human design reader AND intuitive business strategist, I help women service providers, who’ve created jobs for themselves and who are experiencing burnout, use their human design and basic astrology to build wildly profitable businesses.
